(The piece of writing is based upon three main essence of life giving aroma to life. A mere flow of thoughts based on experiences. Open to comments and criticisms. The article will be followed by another piece of article which will be written soon giving the real story)
For year’s scholars, writers and theologians have been busy pondering upon the exact meanings of life and it essence. The discussions and descriptions constituting its moods, phases and colors have gone and gone and gone………. However nothing would have been more endurable then its colors…..the moods…. The shades and every thing written on its face! Though phases are of transitory nature but are the basic ingredients to make its face, which is more enduring and everlasting.
For sometime the confusion lies in the shade of life to be considered as phase or face. Sometime a melodrama or shocking event becomes a stepping stone for the permanent nature of attitude in one’s personality and thus in one’s life. A major step back in success, loss of someone special or relative or friend, an event of dejection, fraud, deception and mistrust with a person and any event against the normal flow of one’s desire.
Now the point to ponder is why do people react against other frame of references in some situations? Some call it 1) mere a resistance of change 2) something against expectations 3) something against desires. Well I will opt for the last one. Changes are mere predecessors to against expectations phenomenon. However something we desire for and don’t get is more of a painful thing in life. (Keeping desires and expectations separate this time). Now these desires give shades to our lives... sometime colorful (if we get what we want) and sometime black and white…but what make a rainbow are shades of different colors thus making a face of rainbow!!
Now where the desires and expectations meet? Simple. When we have a desire to achieve something by ourselves or want somebody else to act in response to it. Desires more have a component of internal motive and stimuli and expectations more of an external. But since an internal motive requires achievement through accomplishment of external motive so here they both compliment each other. Here your success depends upon somebody else intentions and actions. Now if a mismatch occurs. Then the black and white or grey portion of life starts... anxiety, anger, frustrations, rebellion attitudes etc.
However most of the happy (what is happiness? Was discussed in the previous article) and successful people are those who believe on molding their desires in accordance with other desires. We may not get all what we want, but we may get all what we want. By giving and taking all by small negotiations with others... some sincerity, some trust, some love, some happy moments. After all a rainbow gets all colors and pushes aside all the grey areas of life!! The deal is just to give only that with other person lack in their lives and getting what one wants from others and they can give. Though situation is far from reality... but why we forget that models are also built by people, implemented by them and observed by them!
All the phases of your life will make its face! More of it is shaped by your own intentions and desires! However fact remains… hard to give something what u own and easily u get what u doesn’t want!
For year’s scholars, writers and theologians have been busy pondering upon the exact meanings of life and it essence. The discussions and descriptions constituting its moods, phases and colors have gone and gone and gone………. However nothing would have been more endurable then its colors…..the moods…. The shades and every thing written on its face! Though phases are of transitory nature but are the basic ingredients to make its face, which is more enduring and everlasting.
For sometime the confusion lies in the shade of life to be considered as phase or face. Sometime a melodrama or shocking event becomes a stepping stone for the permanent nature of attitude in one’s personality and thus in one’s life. A major step back in success, loss of someone special or relative or friend, an event of dejection, fraud, deception and mistrust with a person and any event against the normal flow of one’s desire.
Now the point to ponder is why do people react against other frame of references in some situations? Some call it 1) mere a resistance of change 2) something against expectations 3) something against desires. Well I will opt for the last one. Changes are mere predecessors to against expectations phenomenon. However something we desire for and don’t get is more of a painful thing in life. (Keeping desires and expectations separate this time). Now these desires give shades to our lives... sometime colorful (if we get what we want) and sometime black and white…but what make a rainbow are shades of different colors thus making a face of rainbow!!
Now where the desires and expectations meet? Simple. When we have a desire to achieve something by ourselves or want somebody else to act in response to it. Desires more have a component of internal motive and stimuli and expectations more of an external. But since an internal motive requires achievement through accomplishment of external motive so here they both compliment each other. Here your success depends upon somebody else intentions and actions. Now if a mismatch occurs. Then the black and white or grey portion of life starts... anxiety, anger, frustrations, rebellion attitudes etc.
However most of the happy (what is happiness? Was discussed in the previous article) and successful people are those who believe on molding their desires in accordance with other desires. We may not get all what we want, but we may get all what we want. By giving and taking all by small negotiations with others... some sincerity, some trust, some love, some happy moments. After all a rainbow gets all colors and pushes aside all the grey areas of life!! The deal is just to give only that with other person lack in their lives and getting what one wants from others and they can give. Though situation is far from reality... but why we forget that models are also built by people, implemented by them and observed by them!
All the phases of your life will make its face! More of it is shaped by your own intentions and desires! However fact remains… hard to give something what u own and easily u get what u doesn’t want!
